Published inRaising a Beautiful Mind·Sep 13Member-onlyCan Therapy Damage Relationships?Managing the effects of personal change on our relationship — A couple of days ago I noticed an advert for a website, promoted with the slogan, “Therapy Damages Your Relationship.” After giving this rather strong statement some thought, I came to the conclusion that there might be some truth in this. As a relationship therapist, I see couples who experience…Talking Therapy4 min readTalking Therapy4 min read
Published inRaising a Beautiful Mind·Sep 4Member-onlyWhy Your Therapist Doesn’t Offer You a Cup of CoffeeThe meaning behind a simple action — A couple of weeks ago, I had a conversation on social media about the effects of our therapist making us a cup of tea or coffee. I appreciate it can be difficult to understand why a person who is empathetic towards us, perhaps know us better than anyone else, contains…Therapy4 min readTherapy4 min read
Published inInvisible Illness·Aug 10Member-only4 Indicators of a Successful Relationship With Your TherapistAnd how you can tell if the therapy journey is working — Finding the right therapist can take you on a confusing journey, with various ideas of what is right and what is not. Research tells us that it isn’t the type or length of therapy that is at the center of success, but the relationship between you and your therapist. …Mental Health4 min readMental Health4 min read
Published inInvisible Illness·Aug 5Member-onlyTherapy Myths and MisunderstandingThe ideas that cause us to misunderstand therapy — I’d love for therapy to be available to everyone who needs or wants it, but it isn’t just finances that can stand in the way, making the therapeutic journey unavailable. …Therapy5 min readTherapy5 min read
Published inInvisible Illness·Jul 21Member-onlyWhy the Therapeutic Space MatterReasons for the calm invironment in therapy — It is surprising how easily we can be affected by our surroundings, the same is true in therapy. Where we sit in relation to our therapist, the chairs and the room itself, even the environment external to the room can affect how we experience therapy. …Mental Health4 min readMental Health4 min read
Published inInvisible Illness·Jul 8Member-onlyWhy Your Therapist Need SupervisionThe support that forms the cornerstone of therapy — Therapists study and train for years to be able to work safely with their clients. Even as fully fletched therapists, they still benefit from having a trained supervisor, who is also a therapist, to talk with about their cases and clients. All registered UK therapists have to have regular supervision…Therapy4 min readTherapy4 min read
Published inInvisible Illness·Apr 5Member-onlyExcavating MemoriesThe smell of the past — I like nice smells. The aroma of newly baked bread that teases the tastebuds and brings images of me as a four-year-old pressing my nose against the local baker’s window. Or the fragrance of freshly mown grass on a summer’s day that takes me back to my grandmother’s garden. …Mental Health4 min readMental Health4 min read
Feb 17Member-onlyThe Garden of LoveAn interview with BBC Gardeners’ World — Gardening has played a major role in my life, especially after meeting my husband. What we created in our garden was a place to escape to, away from the world. …Gardening2 min readGardening2 min read
Aug 16, 2022Member-onlyAdventures in Kenya Part 1Challenging expectations and preconceptions — Talking with friends and family about my upcoming trip to Kenya, brings remarks such as “Uh, it’s going to be hot there”, even the stewardess on our Qatar flight asks excitedly, “Are you going to see the migrating wildebeest?”. The image of a sunny and warm, if not hot, Africa…Africa10 min readAfrica10 min read
Published inInvisible Illness·Mar 19, 2022Member-onlyHow Pollinators Benefit Our WellbeingCombining mindfulness with our experience of pollinators can evoke a well of positive emotions and bring lightness to our everyday lives. — The link between pollinators and wellbeing might not be obvious: how could these small beings possibly have a contributing factor to the feeling of human contentment, wellness or indeed happiness? …Mindfulness7 min readMindfulness7 min read